Relationship with supervisor.

These days, I'm so upset, not only there are so many things on hand waiting for handling, but there are several reports needing to complete by Wednesday. Sometimes, I would like to yell at my supervisor due to his stupid words or actions. But, I knew I didn't do this at any moment, I should give his face especially in front of others. To be frank, my supervisor is not a bad guy except his short temper. We all knew that it's his nature not easy to change. But, in a certain situation, we couldn't help arguing with him in indoor regarding some tasks assign including myself. Especially when he speaks out in front of you trying to express his opinion that it's not correct, you hard to calm down to hear what he actually wants to express even he take as supervisor role. I have experienced these many times so that I have accustomed to this.
I knew I should make a change at such times, at least I should reduce the confliction times with him. After all, he is my supervisor, now that I couldn't gain face for him, at least I should keep face to him.

The Preciousness of Harmony

One day, six brothers of Jane’s family got reunited; they were each talked about their own ambitions.

Number one reckoned, in one’s life time wealth is the most important. However, number two thought “reputation” and number three chose “authority”.

After listening to these, number four disapproved of his three brother’s ideas, he deemed:” Having money which you do not know how to utilize it, then you only a miser; gained reputation but you cannot help people, it is meaningless; the one who owns power could always caused jealousness. So I think I would rather be “prominent”. If one can has outstanding performance in the society, he would certainly be distinguished and respected.

Summed up their aspirations, number five uttered: “Money, Reputation, Power and remarkable performance, these all are not the supreme life’s achievements nor it meant you could be succeed. So I want to be “successful”. In one’s life time only the brilliant career which can cheer our children and grandchildren up, certainly lure friends to its shores and even the society treat us with great respect. It is the real success.

Number six remained silent until the last minute he said: “I hope in the future I could be one of the “harmonious members” in our family, if any of you involved in money issue, I am able to intercede with the disputation. If some of you were slander, I can deal with defence. Number three is too powerful who may easily build up enemies, I am capable of helping him to tackle the problems; number four is pretty excellent, I might help him with propaganda which can make him gain more popularity; number five is the most gratify, but I do not have any other competence to make him better, so I can only follow his success as well as to express my support to him.